I have to step up here, Miss Tina, and say that comparing Westboro Baptist to Arab terrorists is a bit of a stretch...in fact it's a huge stretch. While I may not agree with Westboro's methods, I'm pretty sure that they have not killed a single person, let alone thousands, the most being of their own faith.
And while it may be true that the majority of Muslims are "docile," and terrorists represent only an extreme faction of their religion, the fact is that the religion of Islam is not "peaceful." Their Koran teaches "kill the infidels." In fact, it is the extremists who are following their "book" to the letter.
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-Allah is an enemy to unbelievers. - Sura 2:98
-On unbelievers is the curse of Allah. - Sura 2:161
-Slay them wherever ye find them and drive them out of the places whence they drove you out, for persecution is worse than slaughter. - Sura 2:191
-Fight against them until idolatry is no more and Allah's religion reigns supreme. (different translation: ) Fight them until there is no persecution and the religion is God's entirely. - Sura 2:193 and 8:39
-Fighting is obligatory for you, much as you dislike it. - Sura 2:216
(different translation: Prescribed for you is fighting, though it is hateful to you.)
-But if they turn renegades, seize them and slay them wherever you find them. - Sura 4:89
-O believers, take not Jews and Christians as friends; they are friends of each other. Those of you who make them his friends is one of them. God does not guide an unjust people. - Sura 5:54
-Prophet! Make war on the unbelievers and the hypocrites and deal sternly with them. Hell shall be their home, evil their fate. - Sura 66:9
-The unbelievers among the People of the Book and the pagans shall burn forever in the fire of hell. They are the vilest of all creatures. - Sura 98:51
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That being said, I will grant that Christianity has not been a peaceful religion either. History is filled with incidents of bloodshed done "in the name of Christianity." The difference is that these have been things done by people and individuals and are contrary to the New Testament, or Christian, teachings in the Bible. True, in the Old Testament, God directed the Hebrews to wipeout whole populations, but those were specific cases and limited to that day and age. New Testament, or Christian, teaching supplants that of the Old in most cases, and is peaceful and loving in nature: "Love your neighbor as yourself" & "Love your enemy" (Mt. 5:43-44), etc. God does not hate sinners, as the Koran indicates..."God demonstrated His love toward us in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." Rom. 5:8
It may be true that, in practice, a Muslim and a Christian can be friends and respectful to each other. However, if the Muslim is being true to his faith, he cannot. "O believers, take not Jews and Christians as friends; they are friends of each other. Those of you who make them his friends is one of them. God does not guide an unjust people." - Sura 5:54
There are many "major" differences between Christianity and Islam, not just in regards to how they view Christ's deity. Too many to go into here. Further, the "true" Muslim will find that his faith prohibits him from being a friend to either Christians or Jews. A "true" Christian, while being encouraged by his religious teachings to be respectful of the individual Muslim, cannot condone the teachings of Islam, or tolerate them. The best we, Christians, can do is respect their right to have their beliefs. And that is something that the teachings of Islam do not even allow to it's adherents...IF one is "truly" following the faith.